For thirty years, I had come to understand my wife’s habits as deeply as I understood my own breath. Dawn, a serene and resourceful woman, chose to embrace a simple life. She preferred cotton tees to fitted blouses, comfortable flats over strappy heels, and lip balm instead of lipstick. She insisted that fancy clothes or perfumes weren’t necessary for her to feel secure—her calm confidence and easy laugh were more than enough.
In a quaint coastal town, we created a life side by side, with the salty breeze gently flowing through our windows every morning. Our routine flowed like the tide: her mugs of chamomile tea at sunrise, my evening stroll with our old terrier, and the way we drifted off to the soft sounds of music on the radio. We never worried about how things looked. We never found a reason to.
Then, when Dawn hit fifty, everything changed. The night is etched in my memory. She envisioned a peaceful dinner at Seabright Café, her beloved place, where the fishermen’s nets draped above the bar and the bread was served warm and crusty. I sat in the living room, dressed in my typical collared shirt and jeans, anticipating her arrival in a cozy sweater and slacks.