{"id":5031,"date":"2025-01-01T04:15:49","date_gmt":"2025-01-01T04:15:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shareinfo24.com\/?p=5031"},"modified":"2025-01-01T04:15:49","modified_gmt":"2025-01-01T04:15:49","slug":"my-fiances-secret-christmas-plans-left-me-feeling-invisible","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shareinfo24.com\/?p=5031","title":{"rendered":"My Fianc\u00e9\u2019s Secret Christmas Plans Left Me Feeling Invisible"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>From: Emy<\/p>\n<div class=\"code-block code-block-2\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1625210\" data-uid=\"0fdc2\">\n<div id=\"mgw1625210_0fdc2\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"mgbox\">\n<div class=\"mgheader\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"mgline teaser-19216713 type-w\" data-i=\"il4MJ4zjqpQ6un7q01nKiJnPi0Dz6upB7oqYFsNvDLmbwz30_p_1vOwwEFlYN_4VYeB98eQyb1THry6AJXxaSjyaakcNbiUAC_WjQzJMsFM*\" data-cat=\"IAB9-1\" data-observing-start=\"1735704893605\" data-observing-time=\"1005\" data-showed=\"1\">\n<p>Subject: Did I Overreact by Walking Out on My Fianc\u00e9 After Hearing a Phone Call About Christmas Plans?<\/p>\n<div class=\"code-block code-block-6\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1657978\" data-uid=\"10c6b\">\n<div id=\"mgw1657978_10c6b\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"mgbox\">\n<div class=\"mgheader\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"mgline teaser-19326967 type-w\" data-i=\"il4MJ4zjqpQ6un7q01nKiIVf5l-4cWPQoy37SVdU8Nabwz30_p_1vOwwEFlYN_4VYeB98eQyb1THry6AJXxaSgw5zxXghWtB6KLajYHXra4*\" data-cat=\"IAB11-5\" data-observing-start=\"1735704896432\" data-observing-time=\"1172\" data-showed=\"1\">\n<p>I (29F) have been with my fianc\u00e9, Mark (34M), for two years, and we got engaged this summer.<\/p>\n<p>I was excited for our first Christmas together, but a week before, he told me he\u2019d spend Christmas with his daughter,<\/p>\n<p>Ella (6F), and his ex-wife, Jen, as they\u2019ve always done since their divorce.<\/p>\n<p>This blindsided me since he never mentioned it before.<\/p>\n<p>On Christmas Eve, I overheard Mark on the phone with Jen saying,<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe won\u2019t know until it\u2019s too late,\u201d and learned they planned for him to stay at her house overnight to wake up with Ella.<\/p>\n<p>They agreed to exclude me because Jen felt \u201cweird\u201d about me being there.<\/p>\n<p>When I confronted him, he got defensive, saying it was<\/p>\n<p>\u201cfor Ella\u2019s sake\u201d and accused me of making it about myself.<\/p>\n<p>Feeling betrayed, I left and spent Christmas at my sister\u2019s<\/p>\n<p>Mark has been calling me selfish and accusing me of ruining Christmas for Ella.<\/p>\n<p>Am I wrong for walking away after being lied to and exclude<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From: Emy Subject: Did I Overreact by Walking Out on My Fianc\u00e9 After Hearing a Phone Call About Christmas Plans? 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